How to manage your “boomerang” kids
They’ve finished college but before they head out into the real world, “boomerang” kids come back home to live with Mom and Dad. Whatever the reason may be, when your offspring moves back in it can be challenging for all parties involved, especially when it comes to finances. How do you help your “boomerang” children who you love so much, but wish would spread their wings and leave home?
Provide support
Chances are it wasn’t your “boomerang” child’s original plan to move back home. Because things probably didn’t go their way, it’s important you provide them with unconditional love and support. It’s your job as a parent to help your children in times of need so even though their return may take you off guard, make sure they know you are there for them.
Make a plan
You’ve worked hard throughout your life to get where you are, so it’s important you have time to enjoy the fruits of your labors. Don’t let your “boomerang” child spoil your empty nest. Although it’s important you be supportive and encouraging, don’t let them take advantage of the comforts you provide. Sit down and draw up a plan, including goals and deadlines for the future.
Get rid of the guilt
When it’s time to set them free, it’s imperative you have confidence in your parenting decision. You’ve given them time to get back on their feet so don’t feel guilty about letting them go. Make sure they understand you are always there to lean on but that it’s time for them to make their own way in the world.
